My Question of the Day for 06 September 2010 – UPDATED
My Question of the Day: “If you’re being cheated on, deep down you know it’s happening, even if you choose not to confront it.” Why do you or don’t you agree with this statement?
My 2 Cents: I’d have to say I disagree with this statement.
There’s one thing to know something is going on and just choosing to ignore it, but some people simply have no clue. They trust their partners implicitly, because they don’t believe they have any reason to not trust him/her.
Some cheaters are just excellent at covering their tracks, too. You can’t blame the victim for allowing the cheating to happen unless you know, beyond a doubt, that the victim knew about the infidelity and just ignored it.
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Most people know when something’s off in a relationship, even when they can’t quite put their finger on what it is. But some people know something’s up and choose to turn a blind eye to the situation. I don’t really understand why but I guess they have their reasons. I really don’t think I could stay in a relationship once I was cheated on. The trust is gone, period, and it would be hard to rebuild the trust.
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LikeDislikeIf you are uncomfortable in a relationship the best thing to to do is talk about it. It does no one any good when people harbor unresolved emotions. They build up and come out negatively in most occasions destroying whatever relationship two people have.
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LikeDislikeThere are some men/women who are just THAT good when covering their tracks. I’ve witnessed several situations where the person had NO idea they were being cheated on until the truth was revealed. In these instances the guy was attentive to his wife/girlfriend. He always had the best attitude and he went above and beyond to keep her happy meanwhile maintaining another relationship.
I think if you “know” or at least have a feeling that your mate is cheating something has occurred in the relationship to arouse suspicion.
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