My Question of the Day: This is your first, full weekend off in almost five months. No matter how hard you work during the week, you find that you have needed to come in on Saturdays, and sometimes Sundays, just to keep up with your assignments. Much of that has to do with recent layoffs. You got to keep your job, but you’re now doing the work of one and a half people. Not only have you been working weekends, but you’re not getting paid for it, because the work you’re coming in to do was supposed to be done during regular work hours.
This weekend, however, you’re caught up, and you’re ready to relax. You settle in to watch movies/sports/whatever, and the telephone rings. The caller ID shows the number of a close relative. Against your better judgment you decide to answer, just in case there’s some family emergency.
After the greetings, your close relative explains to you that s/he had several people lined up to help him/her move out of one apartment on your side of town to another apartment all the way across town from you. S/he can’t get in touch with anyone else, and s/he asks if you would help him/her.
What do you do?
My 2 Cents: You all can call me selfish or whatever, but under the above circumstances, I’d decline with a clear conscience. Rest is important, and I’m not going to do anything that I’ll resent doing the entire time I’m doing it.
I would, however, try to round up some other folks to help him/her, but I wouldn’t guarantee that I’d be able to provide anyone else on such short notice.
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Take a few moments to check out the tweets from Twitter on this subject:
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ManofCivility since it’s the full weekend I have off, I let him/her know I can help but only for a limited amt of time.
Mo_Rease I’d help that relative find those that promised to help.
womprat99 Serious consideration to helping family, but only if I am physically up to the task. Unsafe help is not good help.
BrighterthanB4 I would stress to the fam I’m exausted, and I am not available…I’m on vacation
BLKMGK I begrudgingly help her
JoshDamage I’d help out…that’s what family is for
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